Last Tuesday I got to bat clean-up at Gift of Hope’s Lifesaving Partners Awards Ceremony… It’s Gift of Hope’s annual event to honor people who work closely with Gift of Hope to promote and accommodate organ donation – it can be people in government, media folks, hospital folks from Emergency Room, the ICU, ethics department and other areas – people who help grease the wheels, spread awareness, educate others, and help make organ donation happen… It’s one of my favorite gigs because I am an ultimate beneficiary of the work they do – and I get to thank them for what they do… And I get to show them how thankful I am for the gift I was given – for the girl and family who gave me this gift – and for the people who helped get this gift from her to me…
I borrowed a little prose from my friend in New Jersey who wrote the most beautiful thing I’ve ever read about Kari and about me on her blog titled "donorcycle", in a post titled Legacy. I wrapped my talk around a few paragraphs from her post… Here is what I said.... (click link to Adobe .pdf file…)
Now – this video has nothing to do with what I just wrote about – but maybe it has everything to do with what I just wrote about (the embedded video doesn't always seem to work, you can try this link...):
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So – last week our friend Ruth told us about a news story she saw on TV (the above video) about a young girl with cystic fibrosis who is waiting for a double-lung transplant at Loyola, where I was transplanted. This young girl has also has been playing the lead in her high school production of “Hairspray” – singing and dancing with 30% lung capacity… She asked me if I knew her – I thought I recognized the name – I know I’ve met her family, but I don’t think I’ve met her…
The next day, I received a Google Alert for “lung transplant” on a story about Julie D’Agostino – the girl Ruth had seen on TV… I remember that I had met her parents at some cystic fibrosis fundraising function…
That day, I found her on Facebook and I sent her a friend request, along with a little note (OK, long note – I don’t do “little”…) I told her that our friend Ruth had seen her on TV, and that I had read a few articles about her. I let her know I was proud of her… I tried to tell her a little about what living and breathing with beautiful, new lungs is like – I told her to keep her eye on the prize and to get through this – and that I hoped that her journey is as amazing as mine has been… I got a beautiful note back from her thanking me for inspiring her and telling me that my words would stay with her forever…
That night, my Mom and my Sisters went to a play – my adopted niece, Lauren, was performing in the play… After the play, Lauren insisted on bringing my family back to meet the main character – who has cystic fibrosis and is waiting for new lungs and is “amazing” – and they introduced her to Julie D’Agostino… And Julie and her family proceeded to tell my family about the note Julie received from me just that day!
On Easter Sunday, Lauren showed me a number of YouTube videos of Julie’s performances – and Lauren was right – Julie is amazing… The thought that she’s up there, belting out these songs – dancing and strutting around the stage – with 30% lung capacity, I find rather awe-inspiring… Check out this video of Julie singing “I can hear the bells”:
Julie is listed and waiting for two lungs – without them, she simply won’t live that long… With all she does with the diseased lungs she’s living with now – I can’t even imagine what she’ll be able to accomplish with a beautiful gift from a special person and family… I tell people about Kari and about the beautiful lungs she and her family gave me – I do that because I want the whole world to know about her, and I want them to feel her smile like I do every day… But I also do that because of people like Julie – so that people understand that there are others out in the world with a desperate need – and when they commit to being an organ donor, at some point, hopefully in the distant future, they will help someone as precious as Julie – and someone like Julie will think of them the way I think of Kari…
I guess that there are a lot of reasons why I tell people about Kari – I never met her, but through her family and friends sometimes I feel as if I know her a little bit – and I don’t want anyone to ever forget her. But I also tell people about her to help people who take some responsibility in accommodating gifts like those Kari gave me and others, understand how precious those gifts are, how precious the giver was, and how special what they do truly is…
*Chicago Sun-Times photo by Jean Lechat
And then there are people like Julie D’Agostino, waiting for someone like Kari – and waiting for all of these people to leap into action to help deliver a gift to her from a person or family willing to donate… There are over 110,000 people like Julie waiting… I tell people about Kari so that they understand what organ donors do for their fellow human beings. Be someone’s hero. Register as an organ donor on your state’s donor registry…
